I have been engaging in
public speaking for a bit now. Most of the times, I end up talking about entrepreneurship,
multi-tasking and technology. My audience is either soon-be-graduating students
or entry-level professionals. After the talk I get email enquires which I
promptly reply as well. In such inquiry mails, I have seen a trend. Most people
are confused about how to evaluate situations or people before making their
choices. Personally, I have often found myself in similar situations and have
tried to come up with an equation just to make my life a little easier (Also,
being Statistical Modeling professional, I prefer equations which I can
plug-and-play values for better clarity.)
So what is this ‘decision
simplifying equation’ and why do I call it so? I’m totally against giving
advice and trust adults need to make their own decisions. Lack of decision making
ability implies lack of vision. You don’t need to be ‘visionary’, but not
having a vision is not pardonable. The biggest problem with those without a
vision, end up following someone else’s. When someone comes to me for advice, I
believe it is my duty to help people analyze their situations, and let them make
their own choices. Here is a generic guideline to analyze a situation or
perhaps even people. (Yes, there is a difference in between analyzing someone
and judging someone.)
Situations
usually have some positive factors and some negative. If a situation is all
positive or all negative, the choice is very straightforward. Let us say, a
situation S is described as a combination of positives (P1, P2, P3…) and
negatives (N1, N2, N3…). Let’s say you want to determine a prospective outcome
O, which will simplify your decision. Intuitively, it is tempting to express O
= (P1+ P2+P3+…) – (N1+N2+N3+…). Well, this is where I differ. I view, O =
Largest (N1, N2, N3…). Let me put it numbers, to simplify this concept.
Say,
S is dependent on P(1,7,3,4) and N(2,4,1).
O
≠ (1+7+3+4) – (2+4+1)
O
≠ 15 – 7
O
≠ 8
But
O = Largest (2, 4, 1). O = - 4
To
put the above equations in English, our outcomes depend mostly on the greatest
negative factor that is associated with it. Knowing the biggest negative factor
helps us understand the most dreadful prospective outcome. This helps us decide
in favor or against the choices we are poised with. The positive factors are
just bonus and we should not get carried away, relying on them. The additional trick
is to evaluate each of the associated factors correctly, which comes with
experience and discretion.
4 comments:
Good one Vijay...
Thank you :)
Own photo branding in this blog? I liked your writing style, but don't agree with the content. I'm also a writer.
Thanks for your remarks. Used own photo, without much reasoning, certainly not for branding!
Interesting, you liked the style, but not the content. Perhaps you being a writer gives you such a perspective.
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