A few days ago, while I was
travelling by local transport, I met a felon. I mean, this is perhaps the
reason why the ‘well-to-do’ and the ‘educated’ classes seldom take the mass
transit. Anyway, we picked up a conversation that not only kept me off from
falling asleep, but also made me rethink about justice system of our society. Sunday, October 14, 2012
Justice, Equality, and Fairness
A few days ago, while I was
travelling by local transport, I met a felon. I mean, this is perhaps the
reason why the ‘well-to-do’ and the ‘educated’ classes seldom take the mass
transit. Anyway, we picked up a conversation that not only kept me off from
falling asleep, but also made me rethink about justice system of our society. Wednesday, September 19, 2012
Tolerance
Wednesday, August 22, 2012
Misinformation: A Social Media Menace
- Don’t be a monkey on computer keyboard and hit the ‘share’ or ‘publish’ buttons. Please use common sense.
- Don’t believe any information unless it is from official (or reputed) sources. It may take a few extra minutes, but you will be doing social service on social media by improving the quality of content. Learn to distinguish between opinions and facts.
- If you see a clear agenda behind any post, it is likely to be either exaggerated or untrue. Use your discretion, unless you too have the same agenda. In which case, you are degrading the quality of content on social media.
Friday, July 27, 2012
The Art of dealing with Teenager’s issues
Monday, June 11, 2012
An Inspiring Life
Friday, June 8, 2012
The Spiral Cone Effect
- My country is great
- People from my state are greater
- People from my region of the state are even greater
- People of my hamlet in that region are even greater
- I am the greatest
Tuesday, February 14, 2012
Leadership
Writing about leadership in the times we currently live in could be very challenging, as most points about leadership are already well known. In this article I have made an attempt to write about some of the less known points about leadership.
Firstly, what is leadership? Hardest are those questions, whose answers seem to be obvious. Most people may visualize a suit-clad man, talking about something real big. At this point the question arises, ‘is leadership about wearing fancy outfits and talking big?’ Probably not! While pondering this question, I came out with three points which would explain leadership in a fair spirit.
One; Ability to decide based on your conviction rather than someone else’s opinion is one such quality. I felt like highlighting this point after reading a quote by Nelson Mandela, “Everything seems impossible until someone known to you, gets it done" The truth is that someone, who got it done didn’t share the belief which the majority imposed on him / her. What separated that person from the rest is the ability to think and act independently.
Two; Leadership is not bigger than a person. To the best of my knowledge, I don’t remember of any object or machine, known for its leadership. It has always been about people, regardless of what category of leadership you wish to consider. And it is very simple to stand out from rest by being different. Then the question is, ‘how to be different?’ Think of those mistakes which are often made and try to avoid repeating them. In a commercial world, kindness seems to be one of the biggest scarcities. Your ability to show kind gestures will automatically put you in a different league.
Three; A leader is nothing, if he/she fails to inspire his/her followers. Leading an exemplary life is easy said, than done. Being genuine, in your words as well as actions will never go unnoticed. Practice what you preach and preach what you practice. Only by this way, you will be able to carry others aboard on the same plane, you currently are flying in.
An additional point could be, avoid imitating people. I would conclude this post with a quote by the great philosopher, Jiddu Krishnamurti, “If you are very clear, if you are inwardly a light unto yourself, you will never follow anyone”
Monday, January 9, 2012
Reasonable Expectations

The motivation to this post sources to the article on ‘Project Triangle’, which I read a few days ago. The bottom line of which is: A product or service can be Cheap, Fast, Good; pick any two. This is the corporate way of setting the right expectations. The question is: Is this how things actually work in real life too? Another question is that what if someone makes an offer that defies this rule? I thought about it for a while and then remembered a story, I had read as 8 years old. I’m posting the same story, and to my mind, this story is incredibly relevant even today.
Long, long ago, there was king in southern part of India. He had set a daunting goal for himself, to keep every person in his kingdom happy. As the summer approached, the main agenda which the king had to deal with was to provide good quality hand fans to everyone, at most affordable rates. In some of southern states of India, the summer can be nasty beyond imagination. As this is a story from the era, when there was no electricity, hand fans were the only viable alternatives. Being a fair minded king, he invited bids from all the craftsmen who could come up with affordable and fancy-looking fan that would perfectly suit the needs of the people. The king, with the help of his finance minister, selected three bidders and gave them orders for making 100 fans each, and after a public feedback, one of them would get the contract to make the fans for the rest of the public. The first two craftsmen had the same negative feedback from people, of being too pricy while people were not too happy with the beauty element of the fans, made by the third one. The king was puzzled and said to his finance minister, “There seems no plausible way to please these people. They find 50ps fans expensive and are not happy with looks of those fans that cost 30ps. How do we deal with these people Mr. Finance Minister?” The finance minister’s wisdom was unbounded and he came up with a solution. The solution was, to hire an anonymous craftsman who would make an attractive fan for just 10ps, but it came at a condition. Every resident had to make the payment in advance for their individual fan. People were very happy and lined up to place their orders. A week later, as promised, all the fans costing just 10ps were made available to each of the resident. Everybody seemed happy till they actually tried to use the fan. The moment someone tried to oscillate the fan for the gentle breeze, the fan simply broke. By the same evening, almost everyone had lined up in front of the king, whining and complaining. It was then the king who brought it to everyone’s attention, about the note inscribed on the fan, which was very hard to notice otherwise. It read, “Cheap and fancy fan… oscillate your face in front of this fan for cool breeze. But if you oscillate the fan, it will break” The king asked everybody to be cautious from now on and read carefully before they bought a product, whose dynamics defied conventional wisdom. People realized that this was king’s ploy to teach them a lesson and set reasonable expectations in future. However, once they had learnt this lesson, the king presented each of them with a free fan for that summer.
Every choice that we make in life, involves tradeoffs and if we are unwilling to forgo anything, we probably end up either losing everything or doing nothing. The timeless lesson to be taken away is to be reasonable in setting our expectations, be it money matters, personal relations or professional life. A few may even draw a conclusion that a task to please everyone at the same time itself may be an unrealistic goal.
Tuesday, December 27, 2011
Statistics: A Tricky Measure

“Statistics can prove anything, even the truth” - Noel Moynihan
Many people would agree with the statement, “Life would probably be less meaningful if we discount statistics from it”. Even if you were to disagree, I fervently believe that most professions of today wouldn’t even exist had we been less fascinated with statistics. And if you talk to anyone who has done research of some sort, they will confirm the importance of statistics.
So, why is statistics so important to us? Scholars believe that statistics plays a vital role in every field of human activity. Humans in general desire predictability, consistency, and assurance to make better decisions. Essentially statistics quantifies and represents these factors in a more visually comprehendible manner. In spite of this huge advantage that it offers, I’ve always felt that most outcomes based on statistics leave plenty of room for ambiguity. Consider the below scenario.
I recently read an article titled ‘disappointing facts in popular music’ in which the author had posted a fact that “Flo Rida’s (an American rapper & singer) song ‘Low’ sold same number of copies (8 million) as that of the Beatles’ (one of the greatest band of all time) song ‘Hey Jude’” . Now here’s some food for thought. People, who view this fact as a regrettable one, would claim that the quality of music has gone down since the 70’s. That could only be the possible explanation for Flo Rida’s song to match the success of the Beatles’ song. Those who like the rap music, prefer taking a tequila shot, and hit the dance floor, might actually feel that Flo Rida is equally good, if not better, than the Beatles and would cite the same statistics to validate their claim. Then there are those make analysis might include factors such as increase in population from the 70’s to now and the power of Internet to propagate popularity, and conclude other way. Probably, using the same statistics, we can argue from either side. A lot depends on which side are we standing.
For a long time I believed if there is someone who defied this ambiguity that statistics generates was the great cricketer Sir Don Bradman. Recently, a researcher published some facts, using the same available statistics, and concluded that Sir Don was second best batsman, not the best. That is when it became very clear to me that statistics operates more in tandem with ‘confirmation biases’ than logic. In such a case, relying blindly on statistics would seldom help us make effective decisions. The reason I call statistics as a tricky measure is because though there is this visible shortcoming, bright minds have always been able to use statistics effectively.
PS: This article has references to some subjects and people, and could be better understood through the below links:
The Beatles, Hey Jude, Flo Rida, Low, Don Bradman, Confirmation Bias


