Showing posts with label Bangalore. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Bangalore. Show all posts

Sunday, May 25, 2014

Glorification through Frivolous Reasons

A couple of months ago, I attended an open event, where in volunteers could pick any topic of their choice, and give a talk. There were 36 talks (6 talks going on in parallel) and no strict subject or format. Perhaps this is a perfect reflection of the open culture Bangalore is embracing. I too gave a technical talk and was surprised to see quite a few young students listen with interest, a talk on advance topic in computer science. And then I attended several non-technical talks. One such talk was about the presenter’s experience, while living in a very popular US city. I have always enjoyed listening to people’s experience, and hence went in, enthusiastically.

The next 45 minutes, was a pure insult, to an amazing city, to its people, and to the intelligence of the audience. The talk was based on shallow thoughts, affirmation of stereotypes, and total ignorance. Among several ludicrous points, I wish to share a few of them, along with supporting reasons, provided by the speaker.

“XYZ is a great city, because it experiences four different seasons.” Well, if this is actually what makes a city great, then most cities I know of, are great. However, one of my favorite cities in the US, Los Angeles would lose out, as it has summer-like weather for 9 months and spring-like for the remaining 3. Does having four well differentiable seasons make a city great?

“XYZ is a great city, because people can dance in public, yet no one will object to it.” I do not wish to make a counter argument to such a deprived point.

“What makes XYZ great is people do their work promptly.” The example the speaker gave here was how she was moved by seeing a city worker, promptly doing his duty, despite of heavy rains. To this audience asked, “Did you offer him any help?” She replied, “No. Why should I offer any help. It’s his duty, let him do it.” There is one word that comes to my mind to describe this, “hypocrisy”.

“There are no restrictions on having fun in XYZ.” Well, from a long time, I have had no restrictions on having fun, in any part of the world I have lived. This is a very subjective point and city has got nothing to do with it. I couldn’t help but use the figure of speech, small town mentality, to describe this reasoning.

“No Indian city has parks, but XYZ has many.” This was heavily criticized by every single member present. Bangalore with at least a park a neighborhood would be in par with most American cities, if not better, in this measure. Discrediting Indian cities on wrong issues makes no sense.

I have often said that places don’t make people, but people do make places. Improving your thoughts and actions will do a good deal of service to any city (state or country) you chose to live in. Uniqueness of city however is a different subject matter. In the larger context let’s understand a basic theory. American population to resources ratio is beyond compare to that of India. Hence the distribution of resources is naturally superior.  But glorifying frolicsome points about America and criticizing some points of India, without comprehending the root cause, is preposterous. At the end of this talk, I was motivated to give a talk, the next time this event will be organized, titled, “Busting myths about the US: Why I moved to India?”


PS: I have not used the name of the event as well as the city, as it would reveal the identity of the speaker. I’m not against any city or country, but against shallow thinking and spreading of stereotypes. I have a first had experience of the city (visited four times) which the central theme of this talk. This city has so much to talk about that 45 minutes would not do justice to the greatness of this city.

Thursday, January 9, 2014

Top 5 Memories of 2013

Finally I found some time to working a long pending task, updating my blog. It’s been just over a week since we stepped into 2014 and I thought what better way to start writing, other than my top five memories of the year that went by. So, here I go:

#5 My friend’s visit to India
Just about I had started to miss my US life, my best buddy showed up in Bangalore. We are the kind of guys who never miss a single opportunity of having fun. We travelled to Kodaikanal and Goa. Like all our previous travels, these too were awesome.

#4 Starting a business and early taste of success
I always wanted to start my own business, one fine day. But starting Tationem just happened. My friends and I started this venture without much planning and once we stared it, we planned and executed it well. Getting featured in several magazines, giving interviews and the tag of being an ‘entrepreneur’ made a dream come true.

#3 Restarting life in Bangalore
If I had missed one thing most while staying in the US, it had to be my life in Bangalore. Being away from hometown had got to me in some ways and restarting had its own jitters. Getting used to the near-perfect weather of Bangalore wasn’t too hard though.

#2 The dream flight from LA to London and finally reaching Bangalore
If you have known me well, you probably know about my journey from Los Angeles to London. That was the best flight I have ever had in my life. It’s true; cities, journeys, workplaces, etc are nothing but the reflection of people we are associated with. After such an amazing journey, I was about to put a check on one of the items on my bucket list, moving back to India. We all have this goal that’s hard to describe or logically explain, yet we want it real bad. Yes, moving back to India was one such thing for me. You probably can guess my intensity by the number of people who actually return to India, once they leave Indian shores!

#1 Farewell, Cross Country Road Trip of the US
The year 2013 began and I had to say goodbye to my loved ones. I had lived in the US for nearly 5 years and some people had made my experience an incredible one. After the farewell, I took a cross country road trip of the US, starting from Lexington, KY, all the way till San Diego, CA. I travelled with my best buddy to the most part of trip, saw a couple of places I had always wanted to see and revisited a couple of places which I had fallen in love with. That road trip helped me understand that people make places and places are nothing without people.

I hope, 2014 too has such memorable times in store for both, you and I. Till then, keep having fun!