Relative Choice!

Before you read this one, want all my readers to know that this is NOT my original work. I’m rewriting a story which I had heard as a teenager (ages back). The story goes something like this…

Eons ago, there lived a king in Greece. He was known for his administrative skills and his generosity. But he had this policy, if he felt something was good for him, he would enforce that as a law and expected people to practice it religiously.

Going by these lines, he got a bed made of gold, for his special guests. He ordered the length of the bed to be exactly 5ft 7inches. Once the bed was ready, he took the test nap and felt that bed was the best ever on which one could sleep, as he exactly 5ft 7inches tall. So anyone who would be his special guest was expected to sleep on that bed. Then how did he manage to solve the problem of fitting in either taller or shorter people, on that bed. Simple, he created this rule, if someone was taller, his legs would be chopped off or if someone was shorter wooden piece equivalent to the difference in length, would be nailed into the guest’s legs. Over a period of time, there were instances of both, shorter and taller guest, suffering from this idiocy of the king. Yet, a couple of them who measured 5ft 7inches enjoyed the king’s hospitality.

This goes on to show only one thing. “What is perfect for one, maybe harmful to others. What is most harmful to some maybe perfectly suitable for some one else” Another conclusion some sages have drawn from this adage is that “Creating rules and expecting everyone to fit into it is the biggest mistake in the history of mankind” Most choices in life are relative and that’s the way it should be! Generalization seldom works.

Though we have come a long time, this concept of generalizing things has hardly changed. Take this example… Just ask some of your friends, “Would it be wise to live in the US or in India?” Blindly, an over whelming majority of them will hum “Of course! US” Truth is, neither the US nor India is a perfect paradise. It all depends on your preferences and priorities. By rigidly holding onto a mindless notion, ignoring personal preferences and expecting people to abide by it, are we not making mockery of our (so called) evolved society?

Humility

I'm writing here after a while. My schedule has been packed with work and academics. Along with these, some short-term and long-term planning has also contributed in keeping me off from writing! Phew...

The latest inspiration of this article comes from my Professor, whose wisdom, be it any walk of life, is unquestioned, has a plethora of information, helpful yet unbelievably modest. Not only computer science, but you could take some of the best lessons on humility from him.

I have always observed this astonishing phenomenon. Mostly, the brightest student in class is very humble and helpful (however exceptions are prevalent). But the 'so called' or 'self proclaimed' intelligent ones are exactly opposite of it. Same probably is true with teachers. The best ones don't want to force you respect them by scaring you, but they 'earn' it by the aura they carry around them. Even offices are no different. A situation where your Project Lead is very harsh, Project Manager is gentle and his boss is very friendly, is not very uncommon.

My father, who is wise and well-read, is another such person who often inspires me by his humility. People in his age group tend to brag about their past glories and wisdom. I have never seen him indulging in such behavior. He leads by example, instead of lecturing, indirectly forcing you to admire him.

I was just wondering, is it that high status, success teaches such people to be humble. Or is because these people have always shown humility they have risen in ranks? As a sign off quote for this article, I selected this one… "Always be humble to people on your way up, you never know when you will meet them on your way down"